There is an exceptional amount of organisation required to prepare for any wedding and because this is probably one of the most important days of your life, you want to make sure that it goes off without any issues. It’s important to listen to other people’s advice especially those who have already organised their own wedding before yours. There is a lot of pressure currently on your shoulders to plan a day that is not only perfect for you and your partner but also for the many guests that you invite to enjoy your big day.

Passionate times

It involves an incredible amount of stress and time to be able to plan properly for any wedding day and even more so when it comes to your wedding night. Even though you and your partner may have been together for a long time and you do have experience with each other in the bedroom because both of you have tried to make it exciting by including bondage and vibrators in your lovemaking. You may be struggling then to come up with new ideas to make your wedding night even more exciting and so the following are just some of the top tips that will help to make that a reality and a night to remember.

1. Slow down a little – You have to remember that you are going to be incredibly tired after your wedding day because not only will you have had to go through everything that happened in the church but it will be your job to say thank you to your guests and to circulate. Your energy levels will have depleted considerably by the time it comes to your wedding night and so slow down a little and take your time to keep the romance going.
2. It’s good to communicate – This is the perfect time to reach out to your partner and tell them exactly what it is that you would like to have happening in the bedroom. This is not the time to be shy or to hold back your thoughts because this is one of the most important nights of your life and you want it to be a memorable experience.
3. Try to lower your expectations – It’s likely that you have seen many weddings in movies and it is your wish to have such an experience on your wedding night. You need to remember that most of this is purely fiction and so maybe your wedding night will not be as exciting as it was in your head. This is perfectly normal and maybe you are both so tired that you just want to go to sleep and cuddle.
4. Switch off from bridal mode – Surprisingly, this can sometimes be very difficult to do because both bride and groom have been in brightly more for up to you and so it’s hard to turn it all off. Now that your big day is behind you and the wedding ceremony and party is over, it’s time to start to relax with fewer future spouse and have some fun in the evening. This is the perfect opportunity to spend quality time together and to end the night with a bang.
5. Leave the wedding party early – It may be tempting to keep partying with your guests until the early hours but the evening time is a very important part of the whole wedding ceremony and so you and your partner should decide on a time that you want to leave the party and to move on to the bridal suite. You will have many guests trying to convince you otherwise but stick to your guns and continue on.
6. Always wear something sexy – If there was ever a time that warranted wearing sexy underwear then this is it. Clearly, you want to impress your new spouse and so getting your marriage after the best possible start by wearing some sexy gear is just what your medical practitioner would prescribe if they could. This isn’t just good advice for the bride and it is very good advice for the groom as well.
7. Really pamper yourself – The hope is that you booked a bridal suite where they have a Jacuzzi or a hotel and so this is the perfect time to create some ‘me time’ but don’t forget about your partner. Get in the bath together, add some essential oils and do would have you can to make yourself feel great so that the night between the sheets will be unforgettable. You may be very tempted to rush into the main act but don’t forget that foreplay is incredibly important. The most important thing to remember however is to try to relax, have fun and try to make each other very happy.
8. Go easy on the alcohol – If there was ever a time that you need to be at your best in the bedroom then your wedding night is certainly a time. It can be tempting to drink champagne all day and all night but it is very important that you do limit yourself so that you and your partner can have a night in the bedroom worth remembering. Nobody is saying that you don’t have to drink anything at all but as with everything in life, moderation is the key.

Starting a new life with your soulmate

Make sure that you leave the wedding ceremony at a reasonable hour so that you can spend some more quality time with each other. You also need to switch off your wedding brain so that you can properly relax and reduce your stress levels. Always take the time to pick out some sexy underwear to get your honeymoon night off to the best possible start. If nothing happens in the bed that particular night then it’s no big deal because both of you are probably incredibly tired and a good night’s sleep may be just what both of you need. There will be lots of time to make up for it because you have already promised yourself to each other for the rest of your lives.