Shopping for an engagement ring can be pretty exciting. However, it can be nerve-wracking, too. After all, finding a ring that your partner will love and make her say yes within the budget you have can pose quite a challenge.

But even if you are faced with such an obstacle, you can overcome it with sufficient planning and by following the right tips and strategies as you search for the perfect engagement ring.

If you want to avoid the hassles of engagement ring shopping and find the best one that meets all your requirements in the shortest time possible, keep these dos and don’ts in mind:

Dos

1.     Use all tools at your disposal.

Whether you plan on looking for an engagement ring online or at a brick-and-mortar store, or both, reduce the time you spend on the whole process by using website tools and apps that can help you narrow down your options.

Many online jewelry shops have ring builder tools. By using this feature, you can create your own engagement ring from scratch.

With these tools and apps, you will have options to choose the shape, cut, color, and carat of the diamond you want the ring to have. You can also select the ring style and metal using these features.

With these tools, you can experiment with different types, styles, and designs whenever you have some time and an Internet connection. You can then visualize the perfect engagement ring that your partner will love.

If you use the right tool, you will also get an estimate of the price you can expect to pay for the ring you have in mind.

2.     Give yourself plenty of time.

Your chances of finding the perfect engagement ring will become considerably lower the closer you come to your planned date of proposing to your partner.

Start looking for your engagement ring at least two months before proposing to your partner. Go online to search for trending styles and ideas you can incorporate in the band you want to get.

More importantly, try dropping subtle questions about jewelry to your partner. Ask them for the color and shape of diamond and metal that never fail to catch their eye.

However, make sure you don’t give the impression that you are shopping for a ring for her. Instead, mention that you want to buy a gift for your parent or sibling but avoid dropping hints or asking outright questions frequently.

3.     Set your budget.

Most people recommend buying an engagement ring that is one to three months’ worth of your salary. However, this is not a rule set in stone.

You can use this amount as your starting point but avoid sticking to it. Creating the right budget for an engagement ring is more about making sure you stay within your means and do not send yourself into a debt trap.

Doing enough comparison shopping can help you find the right ring without spending too much on it. With sufficient time and plenty of retailers to speak with, you will be able to zero in on the right jewelry with money to spare, which you could then add to your wedding funds or your honeymoon on one of the Caribbean’s amazing beaches.

One cost-effective option you can consider is lab grown diamond engagement rings. They are less expensive than mined diamonds yet have the same look and quality.

With this option, you will be able to give your partner an impressive diamond engagement ring without going beyond your budget.

Don’ts

1.     Don’t neglect your partner’s preference and lifestyle.

One of the biggest mistakes you might make when shopping for an engagement ring is failing to consider your partner’s likes, daily routine, and hobbies.

If your partner is sporty or always on the go and not too particular about their accessories, an oversized, elaborate engagement ring may not be the best choice. A minimalistic one would work better for your partner.

On the other hand, if your partner is fashionable and loves wearing statement-making clothes and luxurious accessories, you won’t go wrong with getting a ring with an eye-catching diamond.

If your partner has a more classic style, you will do well to opt for a timeless solitaire engagement ring.

The bottom line is to make sure you get an engagement ring that your partner will want to and can wear every day.

 2.     Don’t ignore the importance of your partner’s ring size.

Getting a ring that fits is crucial since you can’t exchange it if it doesn’t. Even if it can be resized, it will take some time, which means your partner won’t be able to wear and flaunt it immediately.

To get the right size without your partner knowing that you are planning a proposal, have her close friend or sibling borrow or try one of her rings. You can then measure it to get the exact dimensions.

Also, if you are comfortable borrowing a ring from your partner’s jewelry box, do so and use it as a reference to size. Make sure you return it as soon as possible so that she doesn’t miss it and discover your plans.

3.     Don’t focus too much on the carat weight.

A lot of people assume that the best engagement rings have high carat diamonds. However, this is not always the case.

The carat, or the weight of the diamond, is only one of several factors you should consider when buying an engagement ring.

Some heavy diamonds, for instance, can appear dull and lifeless because they have low clarity or cut grades. As such, avoid getting hung up on the carat since you may end up paying more money for higher carat weight and an inferior diamond.

Because of this, when shopping for an engagement ring, you have to consider the 4 Cs of diamonds, which are color, cut, clarity, and carat.

All these factors can affect the appearance and cost of your potential engagement ring, so it is important that you understand how they work together to look appealing.

As a final tip, your choice of retailer can also help you have a better shopping experience.

Look for a jeweler that offers free resizing and upgrades and other perks. By doing so, you can have your partner’s ring size adjusted and upgrade the size of the diamond when necessary.

If you are shopping online, read reviews about the jewelers offering engagement rings that caught your eye. Also, get recommendations from your relatives, friends, and colleagues.

Make sure you only buy from a reputable jeweler so that you can get an engagement ring that you are satisfied with, and will impress your partner and make her say yes.